You don't indicate your tow vehicle or trailer.
But, I measure my 17B tongue without the WDH ( I don't know how you would do it with the WDH hooked up. It should weigh about 320 lbs. I shift items in the trailer forward if necessary, but usually try to place heavy items above the axle.
The WDH itself weighs 68 lbs. and the WDH shifts some of the tongue weight forward and aft. It's all to complex for me, so I just aim at 320 lbs. for the tongue and call it a day. Works for me.
The RAV4 specifies a max tongue weight of 350 lbs.
2009 Escape 17B "Toad"
2008 Toyota RAV4 V6 Sport
North Vancouver, British Columbia
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