Ed,
There are two inputs for your water, and they're next to each other. One is the threaded connection for water from a pressurized hose bib source. It by-passes your pump and check valve, and supplies your kitchen sink, and bath directly.
The other is merely a fill port for your tank. That's where you just hold your hose or nozzle in the hole to fill the tank (until it suddenly is full, and you get wet!
). Listen for the sound change and stop the fill early. I have a cheap screw-on plastic 90° shutoff valve on the end of the hose, so I can do just that).