Interesting... so much for this idea that pickup trucks from the traditional "Big Three" manufactuers are "designed for towing".Got a schematic at the Ram dealership for the 2015 factory trailer wiring and confirmed 7 pin connector wired to 12v direct with just a fuse and NO relay to switch it off. Going to install an inline relay to switch it when truck is off. Checked a friends Silverado and it was the same..live when off and no relay!
By the way, I did see the fuse documented in the Ram owner's manual, but of course that manual doesn't provide full circuit details.