Hi Lisa,
We opted for all the things that would make boondocking and camping in all weathers available to us. We ordered the extra insulation and inverter with all outlets, heat pads with spray foam insulation, solar panel with charge controller, air conditioner, and 2-way hot water tank. We like light so we ordered the front window and the bathroom window as additional options as well as 2 extra LED captains reading lamps in the dinette area. We only need a two burner stove and microwave but chose the U shaped dinette and we did not choose any media equipment as we use our phones, tablet and blue tooth speaker for music, movies etc. We opted for some external options: exterior shower, LED awning strip, power tongue jack, exterior propane quick connect and storage box to make life a bit easier, however we did not go for the power awning as it's just one more thing to go wrong. We also opted for the foot flush toilet and shut off valve (had a leak in our current RV last year!). We figured this is our last trailer as we're in our 60s now and hope we can continue travelling and camping for years to come, so we wanted to be able to enjoy our Escape right from the start and not have to make changes and additions to it over the years. Therefore we have included options that could be added later for people who just want to start with the bare bones. Hope this helps with your selection process!
Peter and Julie