So to answer your question, the Owner's manual says that the GVWR is 6,788 lbs, but they generally suggest 5,000 lbs.
However, when you get the low profile tires like we did (because, lets be honest... they look SO MUCH better lol), they suggest a max GVWR of 3,500lbs.
That really doesn't sound like an auto manufacturer's towing capacity advice, but then Tesla Motors isn't an experienced auto manufacturer.
I found the
Model X manual. It contains an unusual statement:
If equipped with the towing package, the Towing Label instructs you to refer to this owner's manual for tire pressures that should be used when towing a trailer. Do not use the tire pressures printed on the Tire and Loading Information Label.
So there is an extra label on the driver's door jamb for towing limits, providing alternate tire inflation pressures... but the manual doesn't appear to contain any towing limit information in the loading section; it's all in another section. It would be interesting to see a photo of that label.
The GVWR value of 6,788 lbs (3079 kg) is the Gross Vehicle Weight Rating of the Model X 100D,
not the trailer. That's the rated maximum total weight of the vehicle and all occupants and cargo. Since the curb weight (vehicle without any occupants or cargo) is 5,421 pounds (2459 kg), that means up to 1,367 pounds of people and stuff and trailer tongue weight, which is actually decent for an SUV.
There is a separate section for Towing and Accessories (page 75), which is surprisingly good (complete and clear), and says the the trailer and hitch weight limits are:
- 4960 lbs (2250 kg) trailer and 500 lbs (227 kg) hitch weight with 245/45R19 or 275/45R20 (load index 110) tires, and
- 3480 lbs (1580 kg) trailer and 350 lbs (158 kg) hitch weight with 285/35R22 (load index 106) tires.
Those are not suggestions, they are limits. The huge change due to tires suggests a rear axle load capacity problem due to hitch load, which is strange because although a load index of 106 seems low for tires on a vehicle this heavy, it is enough for the rear Gross Axle Weight Rating of 3,968 lbs (1,800 kg).
An issue appears to be that the Model X is significantly rear-heavy, even though all are the "D" version with the extra drive motor in the front. The manual says that they assume that when fully loaded to GVWR the load distribution is 3,097 lbs | 3,690 lbs for front | rear... so the rear axle is not supposed to carry more than 3,690 lbs, even though the rear GAWR is 3,968 pounds. Although even that would allow for several hundred pounds of people, cargo, and trailer weight, Tesla seems to be concerned that more than 350 pounds on the hitch is too much with the lower-capacity tires. They are probably following a formula that assumes rear passengers and some cargo.
You could ignore the lower limits for the 22" tires and just watch the rear axle load (despite the GAWR, I would suggest staying under 3,690 lbs on the rear axle), or get a set of 19" or 20" wheels and tires for towing, or just be careful with trailer loading (to stay within the limits, since a 17B can fit within 3,500 pounds total and 350 pound hitch weight).
Often vehicles cannot tow the rated maximum trailer while at the same time carrying any significant passenger and/or cargo weight. The limit which determines this is the Gross Combined Weight Rating (GCWR), but the key item of information that appears to be missing from the manual is the GCWR. In this case, since the vehicle can tow about 5,000 pounds with just the driver, it should be fine to handle a full load of passengers and cargo with a 3,500 pound trailer.