Lots of questions here! I'll try to answer them clearly.
I looked up your converter specs. It does NOT provide an Equalization stage, which is good. Equalization applies 15 volts or more to the batteries periodically to reduce sulfation. This is good for FLA/AGM batteries, but bad for Lithium batteries. You can safely connect lithium batteries to your WF-8955PEC converter.
Your converter does provide a 14.4V 'Boost' function, which is time and current limited. I don't know if the Boost function will engage with lithium batteries, but if it does, it will bring the batteries a little above the 80% charge a non-boost non-lithium converter would provide.
It is OK to mix lithium compatible and non-lithium charge sources. The non-lithium charge sources will charge to their FLA/AGM voltage setting, then taper off their current as the lithium compatible charge sources keep going. If the batteries are discharged below the FLA/AGM charge voltage, all chargers will operate simultaneously for a while. This is not a problem. You can operate as many charge sources simultaneously as you'd like (converter, solar, truck), and as long as none of the exceed 14.6 volts, no harm will occur.
If you do not install a DC-DC converter between your tow vehicle and trailer batteries, you can install a diode as others suggested, or disconnect the tow vehicle charge line. If you install a DC-DC converter, it is a one-way device and will act as a diode when the trailer batteries are charging and the tow vehicle is connected but not running. In ALL of the above scenarios, you need to verify your breakaway switch (and power jack if you have one) still have power with the tow vehicle disconnected. You may need to run a new wire from the battery to the breakaway switch (and jack) to ensure they always have power.
It is hard to estimate how many daily amp-hours to expect from your 380W of solar panels. Variables include solar panel Vmp specification, sun angle, length of day, shading, ambient temperature, how clean they are, and the solar charge controller. A PWM solar charge controller will not provide any charge current until the solar panel voltage rises several volts above the battery voltage. A MPPT controller starts charging just slightly above battery voltage and provides more charging hours per day. Some MPPT charger controllers, such as my Redarc unit, have a built-in DC-DC converter and start charging when the solar panels reach 9V. There are not many watts generated, but it does allow charging much earlier in the morning and later in the evening. The 9V capability is useful in the shade; I don't get much charging, but I get more than zero.
Some people are concerned about the higher operating voltage of lithium vs FLA/AGM batteries damaging their appliances. It is true some people with older trailers had MaxxFan problems after converting. It appears MaxxFan did some updates to their control boards about 2019 which solved the problem. My 2020 trailer has three MaxxFans, and they are all working perfectly. All the other 12V appliances also work perfectly, even though my trailer was originally delivered with FLA batteries. There seems to be no 'load side' issues with the higher voltage lithium batteries in trailers delivered recently. It is only the charge side that can get involved.
I hope this helps