Couple of things that might help you accomplish this task.
1. Take the generator to a muffler shop with the adapter(s) and they should be able to fabricate the necessary tubing for you. To help with a description of your setup, take some photos of the generator (presuming it's installed on your rig).
2. To help even further, show them this video:
If you don't have a cell phone that can do that for you, I'm sure the shop guys have something they can view it on. All they have to do is search Camco Gen-Turi install on YouTube.
3. As far as meeting the 10/2 rule for chimney exhaust, and presuming the generator exhaust pipe is 30 inches from the ground, you should have roughly 150 inches of pipe elevation from the ground to the top of the pipe. That'll give you more than 12 feet to the top of the exhaust pipe. Considering the highest point of your trailer is the A/C unit, the pipe exit will be 3 feet or more above it.
When you have the chance, pics and impressions when you use it would be great. Better still - sound measurements even better.